We are wrapping up another election season, the 10th presidential race I personally have participated in with my vote. I am thankful for being encouraged to vote by my family and my community. As of this writing, I do not know who will win the presidential election, but so far, my voting record is 4-5. So, for my entire adult life, politics have been divided very closely and my win/loss record is further proof.
My pastor recently put something in perspective for me: to paraphrase, if you do not let your voice be heard, the other voices will have an unfair advantage. Also, losing relationships with family, friends, co-workers, splitting communities and churches over political beliefs and ideologies is not a good life. Each person should examine what their own personal core beliefs are, put them in order based on importance, then carefully research which candidate will most closely line up with your personal set of values and goals. Finally, cast your vote, then live with the results, pursuing your best life.
Politicians have a job to do. Each voter has a job to do. When any of us choose to do our jobs with bitterness, anger, revenge, hatred, etc. we hurt ourselves, our associations, and our communities.
For the record, during this political season, our newspaper group has people from both sides of the isle mad at us. It makes me proud when both sides are mad. We did our job.
As many have said before me: get better, not bitter.
